"we are that we are "- Susan Lynne Schwenger - 2191, 918, 153 = The Sword in The Stone eXcalibur = Quetzalcoatl

"we are that we are " - Susan Lynne Schwenger

2191, 918, 153 =  The Sword in The Stone eXcalibur = Quetzalcoatl

We Are That We Are in Jewish Gematria Equals:2191

(

w 900

e 5

0

a 1

r 80

e 5

0

t 100

h 8

a 1

t 100

0

w 900

e 5

0

a 1

r 80

e 5

)

We Are That We Are in English Gematria Equals: 918

(

w 138

e 30

0

a 6

r 108

e 30

0

t 120

h 48

a 6

t 120

0

w 138

e 30

0

a 6

r 108

e 30

)

We Are That We Are in Simple Gematria Equals: 153

(

w 23

e 5

0

a 1

r 18

e 5

0

t 20

h 8

a 1

t 20

0

w 23

e 5

0

a 1

r 18

e 5

)

http://www.gematrix.org/?word=we are that we are

"i am, that i am, has been graduated to WE ARE that WE ARE"
- Susan Lynne Schwenger

2191 = 13
918 =18=9
153=9

2191 ALSO means ...
"WE ARE that WE ARE" - Susan Lynne Schwenger


[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=sword in the stone excalibur]Sword In The Stone Excalibur[/url]
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=end of the sixteenth cycle four sixteen]End Of The Sixteenth Cycle Four Sixteen[/url]
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=awoke at three thirty three am]Awoke At Three Thirty Three Am[/url]
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=total meltdown of system]Total Meltdown Of System[/url]
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=as heavenly law]As Heavenly Law[/url]
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=atlanteans mu lemurians elves god bless]Atlanteans Mu Lemurians Elves God Bless[/url]
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=red or blue what are you]Red Or Blue What Are You[/url]
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=after this life then you will]After This Life Then You Will[/url]
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=the witness of humanity]The Witness Of Humanity[/url]
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=the new word is]The New Word Is[/url]
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=jews require a sign]Jews Require A Sign[/url]
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=he shall deliver his people to heaven]He Shall Deliver His People To Heaven[/url] (why he, what is wrong with a she ???)
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=gene who saves christ]Gene Who Saves Christ[/url]
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=the thirty seventh book of moses]The Thirty Seventh Book Of Moses[/url]

http://www.gematrix.org/?word=we are that we are 


918 ALSO means:
"WE ARE that WE ARE" - Susan Lynne Schwenger

we are that we are
'my' great test
the star of sirius
thank heaven
and thereby hangs a tale
god bless you 
and all flesh shall see it together
the great supper of God
God is above
only begotten is
sermon on the mount
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=the dead a gene resurrects]The Dead A Gene Resurrects[/url]
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=ordo infinitus orbis]Ordo Infinitus Orbis[/url]
Keys to The Kingdom
The Holy Cube of God
Quetzalcoatl

http://www.gematrix.org/?word=918

153 ALSO means:
"WE ARE that WE ARE" - Susan Lynne Schwenger

we are that we are
o she
555shambala
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=the bible is right]The Bible Is Right[/url]
The Number of God
Find Dominion Code
Heavenly Formed
Galactic Federation
Free Your Mind
Prime Numbers 
In The Holy Place
Instrument
The Water of Life
The Clear Beginning
The Master Faith
The Hidden Code Facts
The Clear Beginning
Quetzalcoatl

http://www.gematrix.org/?word=153

http://www.gematrix.org/?word=we are that we aree Sword in The Stone eXcalibur = Quetzalcoatl

SWORD iN THE STONE eXcalbibur 

Sword In The Stone Excalibur in Jewish Gematria Equals:2191

(

s 90

w 900

o 50

r 80

d 4

0

i 9

n 40

0

t 100

h 8

e 5

0

s 90

t 100

o 50

n 40

e 5

0

e 5

x 300

c 3

a 1

l 20

i 9

b 2

u 200

r 80

)

Sword In The Stone Excalibur in English Gematria Equals:1818

(

s 114

w 138

o 90

r 108

d 24

0

i 54

n 84

0

t 120

h 48

e 30

0

s 114

t 120

o 90

n 84

e 30

0

e 30

x 144

c 18

a 6

l 72

i 54

b 12

u 126

r 108

)

Sword In The Stone Excalibur in Simple Gematria Equals:303

(

s 19

w 23

o 15

r 18

d 4

0

i 9

n 14

0

t 20

h 8

e 5

0

s 19

t 20

o 15

n 14

e 5

0

e 5

x 24

c 3

a 1

l 12

i 9

b 2

u 21

r 18

)

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[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=sword in the stone excalibur]http://www.gematrix.org/?word=sword in the stone excalibur[/url]

also means - [url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=end of the sixteenth cycle four sixteen]End Of The Sixteenth Cycle Four Sixteen[/url]
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Forum of Susan Lynne Schwenger

iNTERESTiNG THAT 
'SWORD iN THE STONE eXcalbibur'
equals:
2191=13
1818=18/9

~ Susan Lynne Schwenger
 

Forum of Susan Lynne Schwenger

also 
iNTERESTiNG THAT 
' WE are NO longer a SiMPLE i '
equals:

We Are No Longer A Simple I in Jewish Gematria Equals:1507

(

w 900

e 5

0

a 1

r 80

e 5

0

n 40

o 50

0

l 20

o 50

n 40

g 7

e 5

r 80

0

a 1

0

s 90

i 9

m 30

p 60

l 20

e 5

0

i 9

)

We Are No Longer A Simple I in English Gematria Equals:1416

(

w 138

e 30

0

a 6

r 108

e 30

0

n 84

o 90

0

l 72

o 90

n 84

g 42

e 30

r 108

0

a 6

0

s 114

i 54

m 78

p 96

l 72

e 30

0

i 54

)

We Are No Longer A Simple I in Simple Gematria Equals: 236

(

w 23

e 5

0

a 1

r 18

e 5

0

n 14

o 15

0

l 12

o 15

n 14

g 7

e 5

r 18

0

a 1

0

s 19

i 9

m 13

p 16

l 12

e 5

0

i 9

)

http://www.gematrix.org/?word=we are no longer a simple i

Interesting that:
1507=13
1416=12 / 3
236= 11

~ Susan Lynne Schwenger

eXKavier 

Exkavier in Jewish Gematria Equals: 1110

(

e 5

x 300

k 10

a 1

v 700

i 9

e 5

r 80

)

Exkavier in English Gematria Equals: 570

(

e 30

x 144

k 66

a 6

v 132

i 54

e 30

r 108

)

Exkavier in Simple Gematria Equals: 95

(

e 5

x 24

k 11

a 1

v 22

i 9

e 5

r 18

)

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http://www.gematrix.org/?word=eXKavier

[/size][th]Word[/th][th]Jewish Gematria[/th][th]English Gematria[/th][th]Simple Gematria[/th][th]Searches[/th][th] [/th]

[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=secret quanta key]Secret Quanta Key[/url]	1110	1110	185	1208
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=the holy alphanumeric code]The Holy Alphanumeric Code[/url]	1110	1446	241	998
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=in jesus name]In Jesus Name[/url]	1110	780	130	788
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=holy bride of the millenium]Holy Bride Of The Millenium[/url]	1110	1560	260	751
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=light speed education of a angel of the ark]Light Speed Education Of A Angel Of The Ark[/url]	1110	2052	342	750
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=angel of the ark of a light speed education]Angel Of The Ark Of A Light Speed Education[/url]	1110	2052	342	739
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=incredible prophetic seer creations]Incredible Prophetic Seer Creations[/url]	1110	2052	342	693
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=holy spirit on earth]Holy Spirit On Earth[/url]	1110	1392	232	674
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=the star the moon the sun]The Star The Moon The Sun[/url]	1110	1608	268	667
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=leo venus]Leo Venus[/url]	1110	678	113	633
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=the sons of god anointed to roar]The Sons Of God Anointed To Roar[/url]	1110	1896	316	627
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=he is a raving fanatic]He Is A Raving Fanatic[/url]	1110	1002	167	600
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=final seal thank heaven]Final Seal Thank Heaven[/url]	1110	1128	188	595
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=lord elohim of the high place raised ancient gene bride]Lord Elohim Of The High Place Raised Ancient Gene Bride[/url]	1110	2550	425	572
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=test my great bonfire]Test My Great Bonfire[/url]	1110	1332	222	570
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=the air and the earth combine a key]The Air And The Earth Combine A Key[/url]	1110	1608	268	568
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=true holy angel of death]True Holy Angel Of Death[/url]	1110	1332	222	564
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=the second star of sirius]The Second Star Of Sirius[/url]	1110	1602	267	561
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=represents the air and the earth]Represents The Air And The Earth[/url]	1110	1824	304	560
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=the star of sirius chart]The Star Of Sirius Chart[/url]	1110	1542	257	550
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=test my great paradigm]Test My Great Paradigm[/url]	1110	1332	222	541
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=angel of the golden ratio ark measure]Angel Of The Golden Ratio Ark Measure[/url]	1110	1950	325	538
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=there she brought thee forth]There She Brought Thee Forth[/url]	1110	1704	284	534
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=the apotheosis of the impossible]The Apotheosis Of The Impossible[/url]	1110	1998	333	534
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=beyond the paradox]Beyond The Paradox[/url]	1110	1062	177	528
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=the star of sirius paradigm]The Star Of Sirius Paradigm[/url]	1110	1656	276	518
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=final seal the star of sirius]Final Seal The Star Of Sirius[/url]	1110	1716	286	510
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=astonishing age came encoded language record]Astonishing Age Came Encoded Language Record[/url]	1110	2106	351	508
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=thank the heaven link]Thank The Heaven Link[/url]	1110	1128	188	504
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=i am that i am seal of confession bride is female]I Am That I Am Seal Of Confession Bride Is Female[/url]	1110	2280	380	503
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=my great lake of fire test]My Great Lake Of Fire Test[/url]	1110	1446	241	503
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=white bear]White Bear[/url]	1110	546	91	500
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=rider is called faithful and true]Rider Is Called Faithful And True[/url]	1110	1710	285	500
[url=http://www.gematrix.org/?word=the eighth one is paradise earth attached]The Eighth One Is Paradise Earth Attached[/url]	1110	2034	339	498

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http://www.gematrix.org/?word=exkavier

eXKavier - was a word created by Susan Lynne Schwenger
It was used in Atlantis to gain entry to The Round, 
The ORiGiNAL ROUND 
2002
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Forum of Susan Lynne Schwenger
http://www.cosmosdawn.net/forum/index.php?forums/the-exchangers-forum.5/
THE FiNAL SYNTHESiS, eXKavier - Susan Lynne Schwenger- isbn 978-0-9939480-0-8 

From:  http://www.cosmosdawn.net/forum/index.php?threads/we-are-that-we-are-2191-918-153-the-sword-in-the-stone-excalibur-quetzalcoatl.508/

This is an insect world? To be sure there are more of them then there are of us. But I'm not giving up yet. On with the RAID. 

By population, it is 
- the worst thing, we ever had to break free of was an insect
(but, then NO one down here is really interested in hearing the truth)   LOL
- Susan Lynne Schwenger
Dame & Lady Dragon eXKavier

Sometimes it seems that there are just as many perceptions of the truth as there are individuals on the planet. 

There are an infinite number of possible religions and political-systems -- and an even greater number of possible interpretations and applications!! I generally support religious and political freedom -- but at what point does it all become a rebellious and confused mess?? The Torah is highly-intolerant regarding religious and political freedom. The rest of the Old Testament is more accommodating. The New Testament loosens things up even more BUT the Book of Revelation goes right back to the same old fire and brimstone torture and extermination of those who don't think and do exactly as they're told. American-Christians support religious and political freedom -- yet they wish to "Go to Heaven" where (if I read my Bible correctly) there will be no religious and political freedom. I'm sorry to keep commenting in this manner -- but the basic arguments and principles connected with this line of thinking are foundational regarding the evaluation of existing and expected civilizations -- terrestrial and extra-terrestrial.

Wephobia - fear of NOT acknowledging you are no longer going to be a simple 'i"
remember, i am that i am, has been graduated to WE are that WE ARE ...
afraid that this means that you lose your own identity and will be subsumed or swallowed up
in the mush of NOT knowing where one person ends and the other begins,
remember, 'we' simply means 'we' have aligned all of our assortment
of 12 aspects through 12 levels in the universe..
.and 'we' are again 'whole' and 'complete', and 'complete' and 'whole' - simple as that "
~ susan lynne schwenger
did i just make up a new word ???

The Forum of Susan Lynne Schwenger aka The eXchanger aka White Lotus Star
Dame & Lady eXKavier, Dragon, Scribe, Unicorn
aka Wassenakoshka Anang ~ Wassenakoshka Giisis Kwe
(She is bright like the stars...She is bright like the sun woman)
Talks with Thunder aka Talks with Thunders
aka Kit'Si'Nu aka Ziigwan Nibi (Spring Waters)
THE FiNAL SYNTHESiS, eXKavier
- Susan Lynne Schwenger isbn 978-0-9939480-0-8 - Book, Video & Movie coming soon !!!


Susan Lynne Schwenger, Jan 8, 2015

Some of the old quotes of
Susan Lynne Schwenger aka The eXchanger
from http://www.projectavalon.net/forum/showpost.php?p=247732&postcount=594
(posted 03-03-2010, 03:09 PM)

Our quotes & quotations, have come to us, in the ethers,
from Our Higher Self, Our Essence aka The Core,
Our Monad, or Our Future Monad,
and/or, from our assortment of Task Companions,
or Our Essence Twin, many from The Counsel of Thirty-Three(33)
(upon googling them ~ we found, no one, but, us, had said them)
iT iS our hope, you will, enjoy them !!!

"We set our lives to music"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"We are all notes in the same song"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"THE TRUTH iS a HARD SWALLOW"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

" iT iS a TiME for TRUTH"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"eXKavier ... iT was the secret 'code' word,
iT allowed enterance, to 'The Round"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"eXKavier ... it is, all about bringing it all back to
The Round...The Original Round"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"To be rare, and, well done at the same time is
to express yourself, with integrity,
in the highest expression of truth, which is LOVE"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"To sum up, who i am, and, what i do, in three lines, it is simple...
"I am here to eXchange with you,
so, your good, gets better,
and, your better, becomes the best !!! "
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"i am, that, i am", is NOT, what you should say:
i iS, what, i iS, and, i iS, that i iS,
better still, utilise 'we' NOT 'i'...
WE ARE, what, WE ARE, and, WE iS, that WE iS,
so, it activates, ALL THAT iS !!!
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"iT would be advisable to toss,
the following words:
could, should, or would
anyone who says these things,
never can, never shall, nor wills anything into eXistence
instead say...
we can, we shall, we will"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"Say it always, and, in all ways,
with conviction - own it
and, raise those S's, and, X's
while dotting 'i's and, crossing the 't's"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"To sum up, what i do, in one line:
We are here to eXchange"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"Life isn't about how to survive the storm,
but how to dance in the rain"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"i iS, what i iS"
(from the early www.soulwise.net days)
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"All of our notes, are part of the same song"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"When we all sing together, it will be sum_thing else"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"GOOD GOD"
(from the early www.soulwise.net days )
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"it iS all about the eXchange"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"Get yourself out of the "mights"
and, get into your "wills"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger


"We are here to create heaven on earth...
and, we are to laugh while doing it !!!"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"getting to the heart of what matters"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"putting your heart into what matters"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"Whatever iT iS that floats The Boat, can also sink iT"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"The Ills" -- we coined this phrase, note it has lost its small 'i',
and, iT does NOT have a qualify to have a raised "S" in iT
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"When iT comes to TRUTH or CONSEQUENCES...
THE TRUTH iS THE OBVIOUS CHOICE"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

'GEE WHiZ' White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger
(OUR PET NAME, FOR THE OWNER of www.soulwise.net)

"ALWAYS and, in ALL WAYS, choose to be MORE not LESS"

White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger
"YOU DO, TO BE, YOU BE, TO DO"

White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"YOU BE, TO DO, YOU DO, TO BE"

White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"BE iT, to DO iT, DO iT, to BE it"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"DO it, to BE iT, BE iT, to DO iT"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"The eXchange of truth, is my ONLY religion"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"ask,ask, ask"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"ask, ask, ask, to awaken your dreamer"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"iT iS Time" White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"Let the eXchanges begin!!! White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"iT iS Time / or TYME to DREAM UP a whole new reality"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"COMMAND and DEMAND IN 100 PERCENT ALIGNMENT
WITH MISSION PURPOSE AND TASK " (add your soul sigil/signature)
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger


"WiLL iT TO BE, SO iT WiLL BE, AND, SO iT iS"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

"Twelve words plus one number sequence
always and, in all ways activates The High Magic"
White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

Fand, there are a lot of other ones too,
we will add them, as, we can !!!
"BRIGHTEST BLESSINGS of energy, light and love to all"

White Lotus Star ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger ~ The eXchanger

http://www.exkavier.com/QUOTES___QUOTATIONS_XX2Y.php
(NO LONGER THERE - now, www.the13thbridge.com)

(if anyone else, remembers, anything profound we have had to say,
post it to this thread, as, we can add it, to our blog/website)
or; to the compliemntary thread here:
http://www.cosmosdawn.net/forum/index.php?threads/we-are-that-we-are-susan-lynne-schwenger-sword-in-the-stone-excalibur-quetzalcoatl.508/page-2
THANK YOU


The Forum of Susan Lynne Schwenger aka The eXchanger aka White Lotus Star
Dame & Lady eXKavier, Dragon, Scribe, Unicorn
aka Wassenakoshka Anang ~ Wassenakoshka Giisis Kwe
(She is bright like the stars...She is bright like the sun woman)
Talks with Thunder aka Talks with Thunders
aka Kit'Si'Nu aka Ziigwan Nibi (Spring Waters)
THE FiNAL SYNTHESiS, eXKavier
- Susan Lynne Schwenger isbn 978-0-9939480-0-8 - Book, Video & Movie coming soon !!!

Susan Lynne Schwenger, Jan 8, 2015

The "2009" discussions on "WE"
http://projectavalon.net/forum/showthread.php?t=18637
Summary posted below:

12-27-2009, 09:28 PM #19

THE eXchanger
Avalon Senior Member

Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Spiritual eXplorer-Canada
Posts: 4,915



icon1.

Re: Susan eXchanger... you okay?

no batteries required
- we run on 13 apsects of angelic/elemental/and, humanoid juice

lmao.

12-27-2009, 10:32 PM #22

mkspllmn
Avalon Senior Member

Can you tell who "we" are? Or at least how many and are they


12-27-2009, 10:47 PM #23

THE eXchanger
Avalon Senior Member

ohh; we-or, at least me - and, my 13 aspects

we figured out how to put our_selves together

and, in the process, no longer feel like an 'i'

also - there iS too much 'i' ... 'i'...'i'

in this world

and, there should be a lot more "we" and, we's doing iT together !!!

12-27-2009, 10:49 PM #24

THE eXchanger
Avalon Senior Member

1 out of 13 of my aspects are humanoid

6 out of 13 are angelic

6 out of 13 are elemental

(there used to be 4 other aspects,
tangled up in the ranges from 25D to 32D -
matrix 1 - 12D was complete, and, matrix 2 - 12D was complete
The 3rd matrix, came in at 8D

(we tossed the 1 insect, and, 3 reptiles

mkspllmn
Avalon Senior Member

Whoa!!!!

Can you point me in the right direction to explane what you are talking about?

Or does this have something to do with the vitamins?

I think the one insect is me.

mkspllmn

12-28-2009, 01:55 AM #27

THE eXchanger
Avalon Senior Member

We hope to tell all of you,
that is our NEW YEAR PROJECT
it has gone through almost 33 years

We are going to do a series of radio show,
with some pretty interesting people
who can validate many things, and, introduce you to some folks
(who up to NOW, have remained hidden)

and, iT iS our hope ~ to put together some stuff

in a way, we do NOT lose the content,
of our own 'doctorial' thesis,
on the magic behind 3, 7, 11, 13, 22, 33, 44, 55, 111, etc.,
and, how we utilised that, to do, what we did !!!

iT iS all onboard equipment - the trick is to get un bored

wink.



(you heard that eXpression: some people are 'dead' wood / or, dead 'would'

a lot of it, is just simply turning would/should/could,
into will, shall, and, KAN/can

wink.


K

12-28-2009, 02:21 AM
The eXchanger

Quote:
We will, esp. with if we all work together

smile.



ahhh...iNTO my 52nd year

and, iT iS a BLUE MOON

wink.



Hopefully, a few of the many,
will choose to celebrate with us !!!

Susan Lynne Schwenger aka The eXchanger from The Old Project Avalon & Project Camelot Website

an, interesting read - that we should summarize
http://projectavalon.net/forum/showthread.php?t=3428
from: 09-26-2008, 01:44 AM

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SOMEONE else gets 'we'



How to Improve Your Relationship With One Simple Word
Behold the magic of the word "we"
Published on February 13, 2014 by Tamar Chansky, Ph.D in Worry Wise

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Want to give something different this Valentine’s Day? Something that only you can give? How about a pronoun? A what? A pronoun. The pronoun “we” to be specific. Not romantic enough for you? Well, check this out:

Researcher Robert Levenson and colleagues at University of California, Berkeley, have been eavesdropping on our relationships and found couples who use the word "we" when talking, especially about difficult things, are happier, calmer, exhibit more positive emotional behavior, have les negative automatic arousal (i.e. heart pumping adrenaline and anxiety) and in general are more satisfied with their relationships (think: affection, respect, intimacy) than couples whose communication is more populated by the pronouns you, me and I. Those folks had more negative facial expressions, negative tones of voice and body postures (think: disdain, rejection, animosity). OK—quick pick: Which emotional experience do you want to cultivate in your relationship this Valentine's Day—and in general?

When you see a couple in that relationship bubble of “we”—and let’s face it, it’s easy to spot the trust, love, and spark of these couples—you want some of that for your relationship. And you start to understand why traditional wedding vows talk about a love that no one can put asunder. What builds asunder-proof love? Connection.
What builds and reveals the connection in your relationship? Not big gifts, nor necessarily big deep conversations, as they are more occasional events. No, it’s the little things—the little words that you use every day that reveal the nature of your connection and the very mission of your relationship. Researchers find that pronouns shape and reveal the ways we interpret what is going on between us: “we” words set off a program of connection, “you” words set off a program of separateness.
So, whether things are great: “We’re pregnant!” “We’re in love!” “We’re getting married!” or tough: “It’s not you, or me, it’s both of us: it’s our problem and we can work it out together,” or just ordinary: “We need to clean the kitchen; then we can go to bed”—connecting with the “we” word means we aren’t alienated or alone. We are together. The person in front of you has your back, happily. The very landscape, the very representation of your relationship in your head is in the form of us, we, our, as in we’re in this together. Versus phrasing things in terms of: you, me, I—as in I’m not happy and you (and your messiness, bossiness, coldness) are the problem!
Where does the fun begin?
When we are thinking “we” our bodies respond in kind. The magic of this word we is that it’s a game-changer. When we say “we” we set in motion a “connectedness” program in the brain (and body) and so that rather than being in survival mode (think: you against me), we can be creative, generous, collaborative and loving whether we are cleaning up cat barf or making love. Because generous is what you do with people who are your friends not your foes.
When we phrase our complaints or observations in terms of “you” our tone is accusatory and pop! goes the relationship bubble. Now it’s more like a relationship tribunal and there will be a sentence with one person left standing. It gets our amygdala (brain alarm system) firing for both the accuser and the accusee. In moments of crisis, the evolutional priority is to get out of harm’s way, and the physiological equivalent of protecting yourself from wooly mammoths or other dangers isn’t exactly conducive to romance.
Maybe it’s easiest to understand the power of the word we by thinking of the alternative—the word “you.” When someone says you to us in the context of: “you never do x, why did you do y?, you don’t care, etc.,” we feel attacked. Anxiety and adrenaline prevent us from remembering that the person saying these words (in a weak moment in response to their own anxiety and adrenaline) is the person who loves us and is the protector not the threat.
The fact is, relationships are a table for two. And if you want to luxuriate at the table with your partner, rather than one (or both) of you wanting to sneak out a window, hail a cab and be outta there, make sure that your language is the connected kind.
Now, if you are worried that “we” will somehow be a loophole for someone getting off the hook, and if someone does something wrong, they should have to own up, consider this: How do we own up best? When we feel threatened or when we feel safe? So say: “I want us to be honest with each other. Our relationship needs our trust,” rather than: “you never fess up! I can’t trust you!”
One more thing… if any part of you is suffering from a touch of “we-phobia” afraid that this means that you lose your identity and are subsumed or swallowed up in the mush of not knowing where one person ends and the other begins, take heart. Thinking in terms of “we” doesn’t mean you lose yourself in your marriage, it means that there are now two people on the job of looking out for you instead of just one. So… here are a few ideas to get the emotional program in your relationship moving in the direction of connection rather than separation:
Start the magic show yourself: Offer “we” or “us” statements out of the blue: “Let’s watch a movie tonight,” or “What do you want to do tonight?” versus: disappearing in front of the TV without saying a word. Or, say: “I’m really tired. Let’s go up to bed,” instead of “I’m tired, I’m going to bed”…or simply the disappearing thing again.
Use your x-ray vision: Translate a “you” from your partner into a “we”: Realize that we all want to stay connected. So when your partner says—“you always want to stay downstairs at night! What’s wrong with you?! don’t you want to be together?!” You could get defensive and attack back, but instead you could see past the surface words your partner is saying and translate the underlying message: “We need to spend more time together. I want that too.
We need to take care of us.” If you throw in a “you’re right, I totally agree” you get extra credit!
Catch your own yous and accusations: Do a save if you have started with you. “You never want me to hang out with my friends” becomes—
“I want you to be happy, and I want us to be happy too—how can we make this work for both of us? Let’s make a plan that we both like.”
Ask for help; connection and collaboration guaranteed: Want to stay in “we” mode but don’t know how to get there?
Magically, just by asking for help with this (with the added bonus of admitting that you don’t know how to do something) you have opened up the door for collaboration. You’re back at the relationship table, you’re in the bubble, you’re working together.
Switch off days for being on “we” duty: Because we all fall prey to separateness or accusation mode, build in some security.
Designate someone to be listening for the “yous” and kindly, humorously, or even flirtatiously rephrase them into “we.”
So for Valentine’s Day, and every day, together, be that “we” couple. In good times and bad, stay above the grid-lock of local traffic
(carpooling, doing dishes, paying bills) and reconnect with the big picture by doing what happy couples do: collaborate and connect.

Be your best selves and best partners, and let those little plural pronouns be the secret agents in the big mission of your love

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/worry-wise/201402/how-improve-your-relationship-one-simple-word

"iT iS impossible to kill,
what we are !!! "
- susan lynne schwenger