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    dying ??? Regrets of The Dying - THE 7 passages of LIFE - What the world needs NOW is SUPPORT CIRCLES !!! - Susan Lynne Schwenger

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    Post  THEeXchanger Sun Jun 23, 2013 10:59 am

    His last words ...
    (in the hospice)
    As, I was sitting with my Dad
    I heard the words
    'Oh God', slide out of my Dad's mouth.
    It surprised me,
    since, my Dad believed 'the end' was 'the end".
    One of my Aunt's wandered into the room
    and, sat down.
    Again, my dad said, "OH GOD"
    and, I said,
    "did you just hear what he said ?
    he said that, just before you came into the room, now he is saying it again
    perhaps, Dad is having some kind of internal dialogue
    with The Creator."
    To which, my aunt said,
    "i think, its just an expression, and, you should NOT take any kind of meaning out of it"
    Approximately three minutes later,
    my father spoke again,
    he said, "OH GOD".
    I know, in the end,
    my Dad was having a private meeting with The Creator
    and, his final passing words have touched deeply into my heart
    in a very rare and special way.
    ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger
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    Post  THEeXchanger Sun Jun 23, 2013 11:01 am

    THE MOON on  08 MAY 2013
    - This was the night my dad left earth

    dying ???    Regrets of The Dying - THE 7 passages of LIFE  - What the world needs NOW is SUPPORT CIRCLES !!! - Susan Lynne Schwenger - Page 6 Crescent-moon-currituck-nc
    PHOTO CREDIT: Greg Diesel Walck
    Thin Crescent Moon Over North CarolinaCredit: Greg Diesel Walck
     
    Astrophotographer Greg Diesel Walck sent in a photo of the crescent moon at sunrise taken on May 8, 2013.
    He writes: "Finally clear skies after days of going out at 4 am to see the rising moon.
    This is the last view before the new moon and the orange skies were amazing.Unedited picture at 5:15 am, Currituck Sound, coastal North Carolina."
     
     
    http://www.space.com/21026-night-sky-photos-may-2013.html



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    Post  THEeXchanger Wed Aug 28, 2013 11:46 am

    "God aka The Great Sprit aka by 1000+ other names,
    please aid, assist, help and, support every man, woman, and child
    especially those who have  pillows that are soaked with their grief & tears every night. Please send the energies, in colour, in frequency, in light, in sound, in tone, and, in vibration to comfort them, and, to lift their spirits, so, they might be brought back
    into the fullness & richness of living the good life, as, it was intended to be...
    please help others to know how to activate their support circles,
    so, that  you activate 'the 12 strings' given by Troy Trolley of
    www.truthloveenergy.com  
    (see right below here)

    "The first sub-group of three would be your INTIMATES.
    These are the most directly experienced of all Support Positions.
    They are LOVE, KNOWLEDGE, and COMPASSION.
    Next, we will cover the INSPIRATIONALS.
    These Positions are labeled MENTOR, BEAUTY, and CHILD.
    The next triad of Support can be called your CLASSMATES, meaning those who help you through your Physical Plane Lessons you've chosen for the lifetime. In order to undertake your chosen challenges, you will need HUMOR, ANCHOR, and DISCIPLINE.
    Finally, you have your SPIRIT GUIDES. We do not mean this term in the typical definition, but rather in the respect of their impact on more Spiritual (or abstract) Lessons as opposed to your day-to-day Material Lessons, as you will see. These Positions tend to hold more clues to themes that carry over several lifetimes. These Positions are especially free to be played by anything, or anyone, physical or non-physical, incarnated or not, who exemplify and express the inherent quality.
    They are HEALER, ENLIGHTENMENT, and MUSE."
    Troy Trolley of www.truthloveenergy.com

    NOW, BACK TO MY STUFF ...

    "i would like to thank a friend for this Fable,
    it is one that I love, I feel this story may help people to see that which they need to see.

    Thank you Wind.

    I have changed it slightly from the original story that was told to me by Wind,

    though Wind knows me well, and anyone who knows me, knows I have to add just that little bit more,

    I see just that little bit more that needs to be said or expressed.

    So here you have the fable told to me by the wind.


    This is a fable....
    Anger, Joy, Sadness, Frustration, Despair and more…

    they need to listen to Love......

    and Time comes to love as a stranger...

    and your emotions will lead you to your destiny.

    There was an enchanted island and on that island there lived a tribe of feelings.

    These Feelings had a leader called Wisdom…

    and he read a sign from the Gods, that the island was going to sink beneath the waves…

    so he commanded that everyone make a boat to save themselves.

    So everybody made their own boats…except Love…she wanted to stay with the island until its final moments.

    Frustration and Despair, said they would stay with her, we will help her,

    they both said as they stood next to her, doing nothing, but looking at the waves.

    The water began to rise up to her knees…
    and she saw Anger coming on a warship, she called out to him…

    “Anger…I have no boat of my own…

    can I get on your ship?
    And Anger scowled at her and said…

    “go away, you waste of time, you not have been so lazy,
    you should have built your own boat, the same as the rest of us,
    so go forget you and I hope you die!” and Anger just left her there to die.

    Next she saw Joy coming on a yacht…

    Joy was having so much fun, partying loud and hard,
    that he didn’t hear Love calling out to him…

    and so he passed her by.

    Next she saw Sadness coming on a junk…

    and she cried out to him (the water was up to her neck now)
    “Sadness please help me, I have no boat, let me get on your junk”…

    but sadness said “I just want to be alone right now”…

    So the water rose up and the tide came in and Love began to drown…


    Suddenly, there came a stranger on a raft and he reached down to her
    and pulled her out of the water,

    when he did, the raft began to fly…as the raft began to fly,
    Love spotted that he had not reached out
    to take Frustration and Despair with him.

    They both shouted, take us with you!

    The stranger looked at both of them and told them to answer a question.

    He asked them…

    “What do you have to offer us where we are going?

    What good will you do all of us if I take you on board?,
    they both looked at each other,

    and saw that they had been of no help to Love,
    with one last look at each other,
    Frustration and Despair disappeared under the waves,

    and so the stranger took Love with others, to a new island they called Destiny…


    But love wondered who it was that saved her and brought her there,
    so she asked wisdom

    And wisdom said that it was Time…

    And Love asked how he knew that …

    Wisdom said…
    “Because only Time remembers how important love truly is.”

    "LOVE iS...THE END RESULT"

    Susan Lynne Schwenger

    http://www.themistsofavalon.net/t3521-dying-regrets-of-the-dying-the-7-passages-of-life-what-the-world-needs-now-is-support-circles-susan-lynne-schwenger
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    Post  THEeXchanger Wed Aug 28, 2013 12:02 pm

    "everyone is the sum total of all choices
    - the good, the bad, and, the ugly ones
    - if you do NOT love the sum total of The Consequences of Choice,
    simply start a process to change your choices !!! "

    ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger
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    Post  THEeXchanger Fri Aug 30, 2013 12:44 am

    "We are here to change the world...
    and, we are NOT alone" - susan lynne schwenger
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    Post  THEeXchanger Thu Sep 12, 2013 10:47 pm

    priest says - hell is an invention of the church


    https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=bOUmCHOdGOU#t=14
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    Post  THEeXchanger Sat Sep 14, 2013 12:15 pm

    sayinghello wrote:You may not realize it, but your wisdom is slowly going viral via Facebook.  I had to stop in to thank you for sharing your wisdom acquired in a rare view of life (for most of us).

    I did a gut check, and one of the points gave me pause....

    I wish you well and wanted to offer my thanks.   Any chance you live near me?   Wink
    Thank you for the kind words
    Saying Hello
    -you should drop into www.themistsofavalon.net more often
    Best Regards,
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    Post  THEeXchanger Sat Sep 14, 2013 1:01 pm

    When I was about 30 and my great aunt was diagnosed with terminal cancer,
    she said to me,

    "I wish I had spent more time rocking my baby
    and less time cleaning.

    I wish I had spent more time living and less time working."

    Those words stuck with me, and it's been 28 years.

    My youngest child hadn't been born yet;
    I was actually pregnant when she told me that.

    I can guarantee that I spent more time rocking that baby
    and less time cleaning.
    And I've spent more time living and less time working.
    My husband and I work to live;
    we don't live to work.

    Those words from a woman I love had an enormous impact on my life.

    Thank you, Aunt Freda, for the gift of your wisdom. I still miss you.

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    Post  THEeXchanger Sat Sep 14, 2013 1:02 pm

    Another good book on this subject:

    'One Year To Live', by Stephen Levine
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    Post  THEeXchanger Sat Sep 14, 2013 1:04 pm

    A "life fully lived"...
    Sometimes I wonder if being "unhappy and unfulfilled"
    throughout one's life is genetic.

    When I think about my late mother,
    whom I can now relate,
    who never had the courage to change anything for the better,
    was always negative,
    a total worry-wart about everything and everyone,
    and never expressed her feelings, hopes or wishes.

    And in the last weeks of her life,
    she was silent, never utttering a word about the fear of dying,
    nor expressed any regrets about how she lived her life,
    and towards the end,
    didn't want her siblings, children or grandchildren to see her
    for any last words or goodbyes.

    She suffered in silence and alone with her thoughts,
    leaving this world much as she lived,
    without so much as a whimper on the way out.

    NOVEMBER - ROSE
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    Post  THEeXchanger Sat Sep 14, 2013 1:06 pm

    "in the last weeks of her life, she was silent,
    never uttering a word about the fear of dying...
    She suffered in silence and alone with her thoughts." NOVEMBER - ROSE

    RESPONSE:

    Perhaps she didn't fear dying.

    Not everyone does.

    BLACK MOON LILITH
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    Post  THEeXchanger Sat Sep 14, 2013 1:07 pm

    Shakespeare put it best:

    "Life's but a walking shadow,
    a poor player that struts
    and frets his hour
    upon the stage
    then is heard no more;
    it is a tale told by an idiot,
    full of sound and fury,
    signifying nothing."

    William Shakespeare
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    Post  THEeXchanger Sat Sep 14, 2013 1:09 pm

    I think these five regrets the article mentions
    have to do with NOT having been more authentic, balanced, assertive, connected,
    and content, all of which are arguably worthwhile qualities.

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    Post  THEeXchanger Sat Sep 14, 2013 1:11 pm

    "The only regrets I have in life
    is the pain I have caused others."

    - FREEAXIE
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    Post  THEeXchanger Sat Sep 14, 2013 1:12 pm

    If we dig a bit deeper,
    we'll see that in fact all these regrets come from one source
    - FEAR.

    They all come down to the regret of living a life in fear,
    and not LOVE.

    Not living a life true to yourself has to do
    with the fear of being rejected by family or friends; the fear of being different....

    The regret on working so hard comes from fear of living in poverty,
    or attachment to material things,
    which again is fear of losing a certain status in life. Etc. etc.

    Once we slay the ULTIMATE dragon
    - FEAR
    - we will be able to live a life with A LOT less regrets.

    Here are 7 Life-Changing Tips for Overcoming Fear

    - http://www.brainwavelove.com/7-life-changing-tips-for-overcoming-fear/

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    Post  THEeXchanger Sat Sep 14, 2013 1:13 pm

    Like Awolnation sings in Kill your Heros:

    "Never let your fear decide your fate"
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    Post  THEeXchanger Sat Sep 14, 2013 1:14 pm

    I got surprised when I reviewed all five regrets .
    All regrets were related to worldly desire.
    Nobody regretted that they did not progress spiritually.
    Why we are born?

    To work more, to have friends or to improve our life quality
    and have ever lasting bliss and peace?

    With spiritual practice we can experience Bliss in this life and in after life .

    Then we regret nothing at the end of life
    because the very purpose of our life is achieved.

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    Post  THEeXchanger Sat Sep 14, 2013 1:20 pm


    Elisha Goldstein, Ph.D.

    Psychologist; Author, 'The Now Effect';
    Co-author, 'A Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction Workbook'

    Top 5 Regrets of the Dying
    Posted: 09/11/2013 8:14 am

    Happiness, Relationships, Death &Amp; Dying, Dying, Happiness Life, Lessons, Lessons From The Dying, Life Lesson, Life Lessons, Life Regrests, Meaninfgul Life, Meaning, Regrets, Values, Healthy Living News

    I've always been interested in the wisdom of our elders
    and often do a practice with students and clients
    when they've seemed to veer off the path of what truly matters in their lives.

    I ask them to project themselves forward many years from now
    looking back onto this very moment right now,
    what do they wish they would've done?

    Bronnie Ware is an Australian nurse who spent many years working in palliative care
    caring for those who were dying.

    She eventually published a book called the The Top Five Regrets of the Dying.

    Regrets can be seen as something that's good
    if they give us insight into what we can change today for the better.

    Here are the top five.

    Use them as a north star to help guide your actions in the days
    that follow toward an even more fulfilling life.

    Although we can veer off the path,

    when we notice the star, we can always come back to it.

    Top 5 Regrets of the Dying:

    I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself,
    not the life others expected of me.

    From the time we're born we're looking to our parents
    to teach us the rules of this world and to guide our expectations
    about how we should or shouldn't act.
    Looking to our culture or other people to guide
    how we should dress, speak, act,
    and even what kind of profession we should be in is common.
    What would it look like to get in touch with
    what seems right to you and live an authentic life?

    I wish I hadn't worked so hard.

    As the saying goes, no one ever kicked themselves
    on their deathbeds for missing a day of work.
    Sometimes we work too much out of routine,
    other times from other people's expectations
    and sometimes as an addictive behavior to avoid discomfort.
    Are there things that may be more valuable to pay attention to
    where we can loosen up on working so hard
    and pay attention to things that nourish us more?

    I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings.

    Whether it's at work, in a friendship or a partnership
    we make the snap judgment to bite our tongue
    rather than being assertive.

    Standing in an authentic life means becoming aware of
    and expressing our feelings.

    This may be a missed opportunity to let others know we love them
    that can create deeper connections
    or maybe it's a time when someone hurts us
    and we stay silent out of fear.
    Learning how to become more aware of our emotions
    and express them in a skillful way
    can help us feel more connected, self-reliant and happy.

    I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.

    There's no question.

    At the crux of feeling happy and fulfilled in life is having nurturing relationships.

    There are so many ways to stay connected nowadays
    through text, chat, email, social media, the phone
    and of course face to face.

    How might you make it a priority to make relationships
    an integral part of your day to day life?

    I wish that I had let myself be happier.

    Bronnie Ware said that many people didn't notice
    until the end of life that happiness is a choice.
    With awareness we can make conscious choices
    about what nourishes us and what depletes us.
    What beliefs we want to invest in and which ones we don't.
    We may get hooked into states of high stress, anxiety, depression
    and even trauma reactions, but at some point we get to choose
    how we want to relate to them
    and this may help us ride them with more grace.
    Maybe it's time to play a little more,
    what makes you happy?

    Take a moment to look back once again
    at these five regrets people have had
    and see where you can begin integrating these more
    into your life starting today.

    As always, please share your thoughts, stories and questions below.

    Your interaction creates a living wisdom for us all to benefit from.

    Adapted from Mindfulness and Psychotherapy

    For more by Elisha Goldstein, Ph.D., click here.

    For more on mindfulness, click here.


    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/elisha-goldstein-phd/life-lessons_b_3862875.html?show_comment_id=284655482#comment_284655482
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    Post  THEeXchanger Sun Sep 15, 2013 3:43 pm

    [One afternoon we] were sitting in his backyard ...
    and he was not in the best of health at the time. ...
    He said, 'You know, I'm kind of 50/50 on believing in God.
    But I want to believe that something endures,
    that your wisdom that you accumulate,
    that the knowledge that you have somehow is able to endure after you die.'

    "And then he pauses, and he says,
    'Maybe that's just wishful thinking.
    Maybe that's just like an on-off switch.'
    And he goes, 'Click, you're off. You're gone. It's over.'
    And then he paused for a moment and he said,
    'Maybe that's why I didn't like to put on-off switches on Apple devices.' " Steve Jobs~~~

    Although Steve jobs was very doubtful about the afterlife
    his sister quoted him as saying
    "Steve’s final words, hours earlier, were monosyllables, repeated three times".

    Before embarking, he’d looked at his sister Patty,
    then for a long time at his children,
    then at his life’s partner, Laurene,
    and then over their shoulders past them.

    Steve’s final words were:

    "OH WOW. OH WOW. OH WOW"
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    Post  THEeXchanger Tue Sep 17, 2013 8:24 am

    "Words of wisdom.

    At 58 I have watch many friends and relatives leave this earth.

    Fortunately, most of them had strong faith and showed my how to leave this world with grace.

    Living life with grace enables one to leave this earth with grace.

    I want to be remembered with a smile.

    I spend my time trying to make others smile.

    Sharing smiles is free and should be done with reckless abandon.

    Not done with judgement.

    The day before my mother passed away, the Minister told her, he loved her attitude.

    Her response was, "ya gotta live life with a smile" and she did.

    The smile on her face, showed her gladness in her heart.

    Her life was enriched with family and friends, not money.

    My parents did not leave me with the wealth of money.

    They left me with wealth of heart.

    Something money can not buy.

    I am grateful! "

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    Post  THEeXchanger Wed Sep 25, 2013 12:53 am



    "I WISH YOU ENOUGH"

    Recently, I overheard a mother and daughter in their last moments together at the airport
    as the daughter's departure had been announced. Standing near the security gate, they hugged and the mother said:

    "I love you and I wish you enough."

    The daughter replied, "Mom, our life together has been more than enough.
    Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Mom." They kissed and the daughter left.

    The mother walked over to the window where I sat. Standing there, I could see she wanted and needed to cry.

    I tried not to intrude on her privacy but she welcomed me in by asking,
    "Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever?" "Yes, I have," I replied.
    "Forgive me for asking but why is this a forever good-bye?"

    "I am old and she lives so far away.
    I have challenges ahead and the reality is the next trip back will be for my funeral," she said.

    When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, "I wish you enough."
    May I ask what that means?"

    She began to smile. "That's a wish that has been handed down from other generations.
    My parents used to say it to everyone."

    She paused a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail and she smiled even more.

    "When we said 'I wish you enough' we were wanting the other person
    to have a life filled with just enough good things to sustain them".

    Then turning toward me, she shared the following, reciting it from memory,

    "I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright.

    I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more.

    I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive.

    I wish you enough pain so that the smallest joys in life appear much bigger.

    I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.

    I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.

    I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye."

    She then began to cry and walked away.

    They say it takes a minute to find a special person.
    An hour to appreciate them.
    A day to love them.
    And an entire life to forget them.

    Please Share this with your friends.

    It has the potential to inspire a lot of people.

    ~ Susan Lynne Schwenger

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    Post  THEeXchanger Thu Sep 26, 2013 8:08 am

    We all live through monads...which ones are you living through ?
    Examining the 30 "classic" Monads
    can help you to navigate where you may be in the Love Monad.
    That list is as follows:

    Teacher/Student;

    Parent/Child;

    Imprinter/Imprinted;

    Siblings;

    Husband/Wife;

    Leader/Follower;

    Attacker/Victim;

    Healer/Healed;

    Rescuer/Rescued;

    Integrator/Eccentric;

    Hopelessly Loving/Hopelessly Loved;

    Passionate/Repressed;

    Dependent/Independent;

    Pivotal Facilitator/Facilitated;

    Slovenly/Meticulous;

    Passive/Aggressive;

    Adept/Apprentice;

    Artist/Patron;

    Abandoner/Abandoned;

    Profligate/Tempered;

    Innocent/Sophisticate;

    Promiscuous/Impotent;

    Master/Slave;

    Player/Pawn;

    Defender/Defended;

    Hider/Discloser;

    Slanderer/Slandered;

    Jailer/Prisoner;

    Tandem Monad;

    and then the Love Monad

    At this point, it appears that my relationship is exploring:

    Healer/Healed;

    Integrator/Eccentric;

    Dependent/Independent;

    Facilitator/Facilitated;

    Artist/Patron.

    What are you exploring ?

    - Susan Lynne Schwenger ***

    ***(based on the work of Troy www.truthloveenergy.com)
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    Post  THEeXchanger Thu Sep 26, 2013 9:18 am

    Scientist Photographs The Soul Leaving The Body

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    I think, this was covered somewhere on this thread already:

    "The EPC method is based on the stimulation of photon
    and electron emissions from the surface of the object
    whilst transmitting short electrical pulses.

    In other words, when the object is placed in an electromagnetic field,
    it is primarily electrons, and to a certain degree photons,
    which are ‘extracted’ from the surface of the object.

    This process is called ‘photo-electron emissions’
    and it has been quite well studied with physical electronic methods.

    The emitted particles accelerate in the electromagnetic field,
    generating electronic avalanches on the surface of the dielectric (glass).

    This process is called ‘sliding gas discharge’.

    The discharge causes glow due to the excitement of molecules in the surrounding gas,
    and this glow is what is being measured by the EPC method.
    Therefore, voltage pulses stimulate optoelectronic emission
    whilst intensifying this emission in the gas discharge, owing to the electric field created.


    http://beforeitsnews.com/beyond-science/2013/09/scientist-photographs-the-soul-leaving-the-body-2443674.html

    http://www.adguk-blog.com/2013/09/scientist-photographs-soul-leaving-body.html

    http://korotkov.org
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    Post  THEeXchanger Thu Sep 26, 2013 11:56 am

    Scientist Photographs The Soul Leaving The Body

    The timing of astral disembodiment in which the spirit leaves the body

    has been captured by Russian scientist Konstantin Korotkov,

    who photographed a person at the moment of his death with a bioelectrographic camera.

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    The image taken using the gas discharge visualization method,
    an advanced technique of Kirlian photography
    shows in blue the life force of the person leaving the body gradually.

    According to Korotkov, navel and head are the parties who first lose their life force
    (which would be the soul) and the groin and the heart are the last areas
    where the spirit before surfing the phantasmagoria of the infinite.

    In other cases according to Korotkov has noted that "the soul" of people
    who suffer a violent and unexpected death usually manifests a state of confusion in your power settings
    and return to the body in the days following death.
    This could be due to a surplus of unused energy.


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